Fat Burners: Can I Take Them in Recovery?

Posted on January 18, 2016 by MainAdmin

When you are dealing with addiction, it’s important to make the most of your time in recovery. The last thing you want to do is cause a relapse inadvertently. Something that could easily trip you up is fat burners and workout supplements.

The Pros

Many people will say that supplements and fat burners work, and in many instances they are correct. There are pre-workout and post-workout powders, bars and other products that can increase endurance and provide better focus and energy. All of the products are legal and can be purchased over-the-counter. They can stimulate your body in a similar way to drinking coffee or smoking cigarettes.

If you can find a product that is very clear in terms of the ingredients, it may be safe, especially if you choose a natural fat burner or supplement that doesn’t have a lot of chemicals in it. You have to look at what you are putting in your body at all times, particularly when you are in recovery because you don’t want to take the chance of a relapse. This means you have to be extra cautious. It can be beneficial to talk to a doctor or counselor before you start taking anything.

The Cons

There is not a lot of regulation when it comes to the different supplements on the market. When you are looking to find miracles on your path to sobriety, consuming products that have unknown ingredients can be dangerous.

You don’t necessarily want to put your weight loss or muscle building goals on hiatus, but you have to put your mental and physical health first, and that means working on your addiction. You don’t want to move from one substance to another within your addictive nature. Until you can say no to one substance, it’s best to remove all the possible temptations because you don’t want to be dragged down another path.

What You Can Do

The best thing to do is remind yourself that you are in recovery. At My 12 Step Store, we have jewelry and other items that can serve as reminders that you are on a path to a better you. Keep this in mind any time temptations are out there even if it is in the form of a supplement or fat burner.

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Going Back to School in Recovery

Posted on January 11, 2016 by MainAdmin

You’re in recovery, which means you’re on your way to getting your life back on track in so many ways. You might even be thinking of going back to school. College isn’t just for the people right out of high school. Many people choose to go back to school and get their degrees later in life. There’s no reason you can’t be one of them.

Why Go Back to School?

You have a new outlook on life and if you’re not happy within your current career track, now’s the time to do something about it. You have already chosen to change your life for the better, and when you get the education needed to make changes in your career, you can become an unstoppable force. Remember that the job market is more competitive than ever before. Having a college degree can give you the one-up on competition that’s needed to make you stand out in a group of applicants. You can find a good paying job and this can help you to continue a sober life and with more ambition than ever before.

Overcome the Obstacles

When you are in recovery, it can be difficult. For example, binge drinking is very common amongst college students. There may also be a lot of stress related to the workload. You need to make sure you manage your stress to avoid any kind of relapse with your addiction problems. It can be helpful to keep a journal of all of your accomplishments. Reflect on your challenges and how you have overcome them and use this as a reminder when you think that everything has become too overwhelming and you want to quit.

It is also a good idea to find a recovery sponsor near the campus. This can be someone you rely on to help you when everything else seems lost.  Now there are also a variety of online classes so you can study and get a degree from the comfort of your own home.  Online schooling can help to alleviate some of the stresses with living on a college campus.  When you are overcoming addiction, it’s important that you don’t lose sight of your priorities. You need to lead a clean life and this can be done in college. You may have mixed up your priorities once before, but it’s never too late to go back to school. The degree and the experience you get from it can change your life for the better.

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Feeling Overwhelmed? Find Ways to Relax and Keep Motivated

Posted on January 4, 2016 by MainAdmin

It’s easy to feel overwhelmed while in recovery. When you are overcoming addiction, it’s important to take it easy and make a conscious decision to manage your stress, and there are many things that you can do.

Just Relax

Relaxing is often easier said than done, but when you are in recovery, there are DVDs that can be used to help you with all of the steps. They can show you more about how to relax.

Learn to say “no” to the things that are going to add stress to your life. People may be asking you to help in different areas. If it is beyond what you can handle, apologize and say that you are not able to. It comes down to being able to maintain your mental health. When you are overcoming addiction, you don’t need any reason to stray from your path, and stress can often cause this to happen.

There are various things that you can do to help you relax:

  • Try breathing techniques
  • Go to a yoga class
  • Head to the gym
  • Listen to some music
  • Read a book

Everyone has different relaxation techniques that help them. Find what works for you and stick to it. At the first sign of stress, go find your happy place.

Use Affirmations

It is important to speak affirmations that will help to calm you down. Be positive in your thoughts and recite them as often as possible. You may even want to write some of the affirmations down. A good one to turn to when you’re feeling down is, “Everything is going to work out in the end.” Write it down and hang it somewhere that you will see it several times a day as a constant reminder.

On the road to recovery, it can be advantageous to have daily meditation books that allow you to take a few minutes each day and meditate a little bit. At My 12 Step Store, you can find various books that can be used to help you let go of some of the anger and accept that things can and will get better for you. Overwhelming feelings can threaten to bury you. The best thing to do is take a deep breath and relax. Overcoming addiction is not easy, but when you can eliminate some of the stress from your life, it can be easier to deal with and take in stride.

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Setting Goals and Keeping Them One Day at a Time

Posted on December 28, 2015 by MainAdmin

Setting goals can be one of the very best ways to get past addiction and move forward into a life of joy, peace and freedom. The idea of setting goals may seem daunting or stressful, but it doesn’t have to be. While goals are markers for something you want to accomplish, they can also be worked toward one day at a time. That’s how you get to and keep a goal that’s important to you. When you can work toward something just one day at a time, it doesn’t feel as frightening to handle.

How to Set Goals the Right Way

What kinds of goals do you have? Are they small things or are they lofty? Either way, you can learn to keep them one day at a time, and that’s a great way to have a goal and hang onto it. When you set goals, it’s important that you think about how difficult (or easy) they may be for you. You can also set short-term and long-term goals. The short-term goals are generally easier because they don’t take as long to get to and accomplish. The long-term goals will be more difficult since they are bigger and they will take more time to get to. But that doesn’t mean you can’t work toward them each day, so you get closer and closer to them as time goes on.

Your goals should be realistic, but they should also take some effort to get to. When you must work toward your goals, meeting and achieving your goals is often its own reward. Seeing that you can achieve a goal is often very motivating, and can keep you focused on the future and on wanting to do more with your talents and abilities. When you create your goals, write them down. You want to be able to see them every day.

Keeping Your Goals Each and Every Day

It’s not just about setting your goals, though. It’s about keeping them, and that’s something you have to make a commitment to each and every day. For that day, remind yourself that what you’re doing only has to be done for a day. Tomorrow will be a new day and will take care of itself. Just focus on the day you have right there, right in front of you. Know that you can do what you need to do for that day. Then when you get up the next day, do the same thing. You will have kept your short-term goals each day and reached your long-term goals before you know it.

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Turn to Your Family for Support During the Holidays

Posted on December 21, 2015 by MainAdmin

The holiday season can be a challenging one when you’re going through recovery. This time of year is a busy one, and it’s also an extremely emotional one for many people. If you’re struggling with stress and anxiety over social expectations, or feelings of loneliness during the holidays, getting support from family can be an enormous help as you work toward sober living.

Families Come in All Shapes and Sizes

Spending the holidays with family doesn’t always mean gathering around the dinner table with mom, dad, siblings and other relatives. The word “family” can be used to describe any group of people that you feel close to. Whether that’s one parent or a group of close friends, your family consists of those who are closest to your heart. These people can provide you with the emotional support you need during this hectic season. When you gather with family, you should feel loved and welcomed no matter what you’re going through. Regardless of who you consider family, these are the people who can make the holiday season a happy one for you despite your struggles.

Closing the Distance

If the people you’re closest to live far away, try to make travel plans to see them over the holidays if possible. If you’re unable to do that, stay in touch with them in other ways. Use video chat software to see and talk to them, or spend time chatting with them on the phone so you can at least hear their voices. You can also keep in touch with them through social media or by sending a heartfelt, handwritten card.

Be Realistic About Expectations

Now that you’re going through a 12-step recovery program, you might think that the holidays will be joyful occasions, but it’s important to be realistic about your expectations. Even though you’re working toward a sober living goal, things that have happened in the past that might have created distance between you and your family can come up. These events might cause some friction in the present, so try to be patient and understanding when you’re with family. Keep in mind that your family might have certain expectations about you and your behavior as well. They might expect you to feel cheerful all the time during the holidays, but it’s common to go through different emotions when you’re recovering from addiction. Instead of hiding your feelings, turning to compassionate family members can help you cope with these emotions.

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Who Said Clean and Sober Holidays had to Be Boring?

Posted on December 14, 2015 by MainAdmin

The holidays are quickly approaching, and that means we’ll all be attending a myriad of get-togethers like office parties, secret Santa exchanges and other events. These social functions will undoubtedly be full of alcohol and inebriated party-goers. It is possible for those in recovery to have a fantastic time at these holiday events even while surrounded by booze or other drugs.

You can be the Life of the Party Without Giving In

Too many people rely on alcohol or drugs as a crutch, thinking it helps them become social, happy and fun to be around. Think about the real point of having a holiday party. It is to spend time with friends and family while eating good food, listening to music and enjoying other sorts of entertainment. You can partake in karaoke, board games, video games, movie marathons, grandiose meals and other niceties during the holidays without setting back your progress in recovery.

A Sober Holiday is a Memorable Holiday

One of the best aspects of holiday celebrations is creating memories. What’s the point of getting together with your friends and family during the holidays if you move on with no recollection of those events? Go ahead and enjoy sober living during the holidays. You’ll be able to dance, laugh, play and interact with others with perfect mental clarity. In the end, you’ll have fond memories that last a lifetime.

You can do Anything While Sober

If you’d rather avoid being around temptations altogether during the holidays, encourage your friends and family to do something different and go out for some fun instead. You could go to the local movie theater and enjoy a family-friendly film together, or grab a cup off coffee and something sweet at your favorite coffee shop. You and your loved ones will still have plenty of fun without you feeling uncomfortable.

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I’m Dreaming of Beautiful Recovery Gifts in Style!

Posted on December 10, 2015 by MainAdmin

‘Twas the night before Christmas, when all through the sober house,
not a creature was stirring, not even a mouse.
The stockings were hung by the chimney, in hopes to be filled with more
shiny hope and fun unique gifts with the most in recovery from My 12 Step Store.

The clean and sober adults were like young children all nestled all snug in their beds,
While visions of presents filled their heads , gratitude was what they really said.
All over the world it was the same, from teenage adults on up people in recovery
were hoping for gifts that had new meaning to their ways of living in recovery.

Some envisioned big fancy gifts of jewelry and diamonds with emeralds and ruby’s,
others thought of fun stocking stuffers and  yet some wished for special Hanukkah sapphires.
They all have a wish list but would be ever so grateful for anything from My 12 Step Store,
holiday wrapped and delivered with all that special thought  from great old St Nick.

The beautiful moon on the face of the newcomer was like fresh-fallen snow.
Stars twinkled deep into their hearts with sweet new thoughts and pleasant sober dreams.
When, what to my wondering eyes they opened up to amazing new recovery toys.
House’s were filled all over the world with love and gifts of hope from My 12 Step Store.

It was true…Dreams were heard and wishes were filled, Joy was whistled, and shouted,and all gifts were called out by name! “Now,  12-Step Ball! Now, Big Book Cover!
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and Recovery Meditation Books! Forward, Gifts for Her!, Forward Gifts for Him!

Recovery eyes-how they twinkled! Adults with children like dimples how merry!
Happy cheeks were like serenity roses, with recovery noses like a cherry!
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We wish you all the amazing recovery you can imagine and all the serenity you wish to happen.
We will work ever so hard to serve and please, know we share and give back for those who need.
We hope to hear a sound from you and Thank you for all your support year round.
“Happy Holidays and Merry Christmas to all, and to all a clean and sober good-night!”

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Why do the Holidays Make Me Feel Lonely?

Posted on November 30, 2015 by MainAdmin

The holidays can feel like an awfully lonely time for those who are in recovery. You might be surrounded by loved ones; friends and co-workers at all sorts of social events but still feel a sense of loneliness. Part of your perceived seclusion can be attributed to the fact that you are in the midst of a dramatic life change that most others can’t relate to. It can also be because others consume alcohol during holiday events while you continue your sober living and quest for personal growth. If this sounds like you, keep reading to find out how you can put those lonely feelings behind you and enjoy the holidays.

Define the Real Problem

Plenty of individuals in recovery experience feelings of loneliness around the holidays even though they have loving friends and family around them. The problem is not a lack of company, but a lack of genuine connections. For some, the solution is to search out others who value sober living. For others, the answer is to find new social circles with individuals who share common interests outside of imbibing alcohol and other drugs. It is critical that you determine what the actual reason for your loneliness is. Once you have pinpointed the core of the problem, you can work on developing genuine connections with others while marching forth with your recovery.

Strive to Establish Fellowship with Others in Recovery

One of the best ways to eliminate your feelings of loneliness around the holidays is to aim for fellowship in recovery. Those who can forge bonds with others who value sober living will enjoy a meaningful life free of substance abuse. Fellowship in recovery provides key social support functions that every former substance abuser can benefit from. Consider joining a 12 Step group to find people with similar life paths. After all, it is often counterproductive to be around substance abusers, especially during the holidays when the alcohol flows freely. Instead, reach out to groups that provide support to those in recovery. You’ll establish meaningful bonds that just might last a lifetime. Even if these relationships do not stand the test of time, they will certainly alleviate your holiday loneliness.

A Sponsor Might be the Solution to Your Problem

In some instances, a sponsor will provide essential support to your quest for sober living. Sponsors are highly experienced individuals in recovery programs who make themselves available to those attempting to break free from substance abuse addiction. If you ever feel lonely even in the slightest during the holiday months, reach out to your sponsor for a conversation, meeting or social outing. He or she just might provide the support and common ground you need to keep your spirits up during the holidays.

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How to Show Your Gratitude this Holiday Season

Posted on November 23, 2015 by MainAdmin

The holiday season is a great time to think about all of the things you’re thankful for in life, especially when you’re going through recovery. It’s also an ideal time to show how thankful you are for those around you who have supported you through recovery. You don’t need a lot of money for presents to show gratitude. There are several other ways for you to give thanks this season.

Show Gratitude to Loved Ones

From a simple smile to a sticky note with a message of love on it, you can let your loved ones know how thankful you are for having them in your life. Cook a special dinner for a family member or friend to show your appreciation, or send them a thank you note in the mail. You can also plan to spend extra time with them, whether that means going to a favorite restaurant or taking a long walk at a local park. Spending time with loved ones or doing something surprising yet special for them helps them understand how much they mean to you. If you usually don’t express these feelings, the holiday season gives you the perfect opportunity to do so.

Help Those in Need

Expressing thanks for what you have also makes you think of those who are still struggling. You can show gratitude while also doing good deeds by helping those in need. Volunteer at a local soup kitchen, or donate clothing and other items to homeless shelters or other charities in your area. You can also make a monetary donation to help out. Whether you donate your time, money or material items, you’re making an important difference in the lives of those who need help the most during this holiday season.

Do Random Acts of Kindness

You can show your gratitude for life in general by doing random acts of kindness. In addition to doing nice things for your loved ones, these acts let you brighten up someone else’s day. Knowing that you have the ability to bring a smile to the face of a total stranger can help boost your self-confidence as you work toward sober living. This holiday season, think of small yet powerful ways to show kindness to others, such as buying a cup of coffee for the person in line behind you at a local coffee shop or leaving your waitress a tip that’s a bit more than usual.

Every time you show your gratitude, you take a step toward a more positive life. That positive energy can help encourage you to stay strong in your recovery process. So don’t just show what you are grateful for during the holidays, show it all year round.

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Politics and Religion: What’s Safe to Talk About?

Posted on November 16, 2015 by MainAdmin

Whether you’re gathering with relatives around for a holiday feast or enjoying regular dinners with family, it’s important to be careful about what you discuss. There’s an old adage about never discussing politics or religion with others, and there’s a good reason for that. These topics can be highly controversial when your opinions or beliefs differ from those around you. Bringing these subjects up can cause you additional stress, which can make it more difficult for you to work through 12 step recovery. Instead of talking about hot topics like politics or religion, here are several ideas of other topics to bring up.

Personal Topics

While some personal topics might be off limits, such as relationship problems a family member is having, you can bring up a wide range of other discussion topics. Ask family members how their jobs are going, how school is going, whether they’ve traveled anywhere interesting lately or what their plans are for the upcoming year. These are safe subjects that can lead to lengthy conversations about careers, education, travel and other topics. They also give you and everyone else at the table a chance to learn more about loved ones and what’s important to them. If you’re trying to become close to loved ones again while working toward sober living, these topics give you a great way to do so.

Current Events and Entertainment

You can also talk about things that are going in your community, your city or the wider world, but be careful to stay away from anything that strays too close to politics or religion. For example, avoid talking about upcoming elections. Instead, bring up amusing or funny things that you’ve seen online or in the news. You can also ask family members if they’ve seen any interesting movies or TV shows lately. If you’ve seen some, you can share your opinion of them.

Hypothetical Questions

These offer a fun way to learn about loved ones while enjoying a meal. They also give you a way to learn more about yourself as you go through addiction recovery. You can start by asking family members things like what kind of superhero power they would love to have, what kind of animal they would choose to be or where they would go if they could pick one place to travel to. You and your family members can take turns going around the table and asking these questions for an amusing mealtime.

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